We’ve put together a list of behaviors that mht trip the creep-meter for women who are just getting to know a particular man. Instead, he seems desperate, socially inept, insecure, impatient and creepy. Men are socialized to be the pursuers and most women like that. Most women are looking for a relationship with someone they perceive to be normal – perhaps a little quirky, but not odd or strange. Do you track Bfoot on your weekends up in the mountains? Who’s to say how much personal space is appropriate on a date, rht? There’s something about assuming that you can move in close that women find so unappealing and creepy. Webster’s define a “creep” as a person who is “disturbingly eccentric, painfully introverted, or obnoxious.” Most people would add: “a MAN who is disturbingly eccentric, painfully introverted, or obnoxious.” For “creep” is a word, like so many, that seems to have been assned to a gender. Most women believe that discussions of a sexual nature are best left for when you know each other quite well and certainly not during an email exchange or coffee date. Until she picks up the phone and says to him, “NEVER ME AGAIN.” In this case, it isn’t Mike’s fault. But if you’re going to discuss a hobby early on in a relationship you should be confident that it doesn’t make you seem odd in a disquieting way.
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